The Crashing of the waves produces beauty.
If it wasn't for the constant turning of the ocean and crashing of the mighty waves there wouldn't be a beach for so many people to enjoy. We look at the shoreline and very seldom do we consider the constant struggle it took to create the shoreline, we admire.
So often, we look at others, who seem to have it all together, or have a beauty we feel we lack, and instantly assume it came easily. We find ourselves saying things like, why can't that be me, but we forget to consider what it took to get to the place they are already. We are seeing a snapshot of life after the waves. We quickly assume they just woke up that way; which for some that may almost be the case, but very rarely is that the case. Most often it is more of a case of a struggle full of crashing and churning that has shaped them into what they are today. They went through their violent battle with the waves and have come out a better more polished version of theirselves.
You may see your situation as more than you can bare, but that which is turning, that which is crashing, that which is smashing against you is making you into something to be cherished by all. You are stronger than you may have chose to believe, but in holding on you will soon find yourself washed upon the shore ready to be a smoother, more polished, version of yourself, with a beauty that will bring joy to those around you.